Category: Blogging
Ladies Night
I’m going to keep this post nice and short. I hope I am not the only one who has had a conversation with her boyfriend that just bores him to tears? Well I have, and what’s more I have a boyfriend who will call me out on it. Which is for the most part a good thing. If I hear this more than once or twice in a few week span, then I know it is time for a girls night out. It seems really simple, but for some reason this took me a long time to really figure out.
I was taught that the man in your life is your best friend and you should be able to share anything and everything with. This is how I have historically approached every relationship. With this notion that whatever is going on in my little coconut then my partner wants to hear. Reality check! He doesn’t. Low and behold there was a solution and that solution is a girls night out. There is something so amazingly stabilizing about having an evening out with the ladies. Having the opportunity to chat in chick speak and get some emotions off your chest. And the same holds true for the opposite sex. Having a guys night, drinking beers, shooting the shit, it’s cathartic and feels oh so great.
So as I pack to go to Las Vegas for a few days, I leave you with this. If you see the eyes rolling in your partner after you have prattled on for a few minutes, recognize what this means. Call up the ladies, get dressed up and go for a evening out. Oh and tell your man exactly what you’re up to. Let him know that it’s not his job to hear the latest gossip or about your woman problems. But rather that you will come home with some fabulous stories about how you were told he was the luckiest man on earth to have such an amazing woman. Quality time with your man beats quantity any day.
Cheers!
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My Blogging Reason
My Non-monogamous Blog Begins
Typically I have been told that blogs should start at the beginning, however I think it’s more beneficial for me to start right at the point that kept me up last night thinking about writing this down. I was either dumped last night or given a 2 week no contact by my boyfriend of almost a year. I showed emotion and perhaps jealousy over a chick that he has been fooling around with. It is unattractive to display these qualities and I have been bogging him down with this anger and moodiness steadily, for over a month.
Now for a little back story, I do not believe in monogamy. We are in an open relationship or were as it might be in a few weeks. In my experience everyone cheats at some point in some way (emotionally, physically or both), and feelings get hurt, marriages end, etc. So the research started, and the idea that animals and monkeys especially, are monogamous is nothing more than a myth. My culture, being Canadian, lives repressed, with a real fear of judgment, constantly fighting our natural tendencies. A great book to read on this is “Sex at Dawn” by Christopher Ryan.
So this is the point at which I start writing. I will go more into the research I have done, both in real life relationships and in printed word. As well, I will give more back story on myself, explaining how I have ended up at the life conclusions that I have. Either way, I hope this can be a resource for at least one person who is struggling with thoughts of cheating or has recently been cheated on. We are human and sex is a lot of fun, and we all have a blogging reason.
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